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Does she just have acne or is she ugly?? You can't fix ugly.

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I'd like to hear what others have to say about this. I'm in a similar situation at this exact moment. Alcohol helps my attraction to her as well on top of the other things you've mentioned. She's not even that bad looking but it appears I am very shallow lol. I question the same thing wondering if I can learn to love her or is it just a waste of time. Plus I don't wanna hurt the chick by leading her on.

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make her bust down.

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Does she just have acne or is she ugly?? You can't fix ugly.

Shes got acne, her face isn't the best 5/10 and she could use a pushup bra. She sucks a mean dick and is a freak though.:foreveralone:
Her personality really is wife material. She likes almost all the same stuff I do. Ex: nature
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My girlfriend isn't attractive to me in broad daylight.

I'm pretty sure that this all but guarantees a future divorce/breakup.

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Is her acne bad? Maybe buy her some bath stuff and stick some acne face wash in the present or something.

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I feel the same way, we live together.

I constantly see hot chicks who get all done up and feel overbearing sexual attraction to them, which i rarely feel for my own mate.

However, when i reflect on how she is; accepting and tolerant of me and my foibles, has similar interests and personality, similar long term goals....

AND is willing to shit in the woods, rough it, ride her bike in the rain, go on adventures, etc...

I realize how lucky I am to have a simple no nonsense girl who takes care of me when and how i need it.

It really strikes me how fortunate I am when my co-workers discuss their high maintanence mates...

Keep it in perspective. If your really young and you want to fuck some hot bitches and get it out of the system, then you might want to get that out of your system.

However, if you've been around the block and appreciate things like honesty, trust, loyalty, mutual dependence, and lifestyle then you should probably learn to love what you have.

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In the long run, looks fade, personality really does count for more. I mean, when you're both old and over fucking all the time, having something you can talk about is key.
Whether you're looking for a bimbo to fulfill your fantasies or a partner to establish deep intimacy with is up to you though.
But honestly, I've been with hot chicks that are annoying as fuck, and kinda heavyish chicks that are super cool... You can work on weight or acne, you can't fix stupid or mean.

A cool chick is more likely to do the fun stuff that gets you up anyway lol.

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In the long run, looks fade, personality really does count for more. I mean, when you're both old and over fucking all the time, having something you can talk about is key.
Whether you're looking for a bimbo to fulfill your fantasies or a partner to establish deep intimacy with is up to you though.
But honestly, I've been with hot chicks that are annoying as fuck, and kinda heavyish chicks that are super cool... You can work on weight or acne, you can't fix stupid or mean.

A cool chick is more likely to do the fun stuff that gets you up anyway lol.



This. Completely agree. :thumbup:
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You don't necessarily need to think that your partner is the hottest person on the planet, but zero attraction (in the daylight) is a bad thing.

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Anonymous said:
I feel the same way, we live together.

I constantly see hot chicks who get all done up and feel overbearing sexual attraction to them, which i rarely feel for my own mate.

However, when i reflect on how she is; accepting and tolerant of me and my foibles, has similar interests and personality, similar long term goals....

AND is willing to shit in the woods, rough it, ride her bike in the rain, go on adventures, etc...

I realize how lucky I am to have a simple no nonsense girl who takes care of me when and how i need it.

It really strikes me how fortunate I am when my co-workers discuss their high maintanence mates...

Keep it in perspective. If your really young and you want to fuck some hot bitches and get it out of the system, then you might want to get that out of your system.

However, if you've been around the block and appreciate things like honesty, trust, loyalty, mutual dependence, and lifestyle then you should probably learn to love what you have.


Fuck I have the opposite, my girl is chubby, but to me she is gorgeous face wise and body. Her personality is "wifey material"

One thing that gets in our way is that she hates all the little things I do, mind you I hardly have any pet peeves towards her, like whisper words to a song, or bop my head, air guitar/drums, shrooms, acid, but she tells me she loves me with all her heart.

We've broken up once but she always comes back.

We just passed our fifth year together and we are fighting again. :suicide:

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Dude that sounds terribly unhealthy.? Those "little things you do" are part who you are.? It sounds like either you don't click, or she's just looking for things to get upset about.

Those types of things don't change IME either.

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Sorry to hijack your thread btw.

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